What Advice Can You Give to a Friend Who’s Married and the Victim of Adultery?


Question by Jim the evolution cruncher: What advice can you give to a friend who’s married and the victim of adultery?

He is going through a lot of hurt but wants to work it out and so does she. But he struggles with the thoughts of them together all the time.

How can a friend comfort him?

Answer by Lady Lynx
Tell him to divorce. Obviously they aren’t meant to be together if one of them is cheating. They should cut their losses and find other people.

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6 Responses to What Advice Can You Give to a Friend Who’s Married and the Victim of Adultery?

  1. Dsijjin says:

    There really isn’t anything you can do ;/ It’s cool that you care, though.

    Perhaps you guys should start getting buff or something. Working out and looking different GREATLY reduces depression.

  2. ModernDayPuritan says:

    Tell your friend these things take time to heal. He needs to remember that God honors the marriage covenant…even though he has the right to get a divorce because of her unfaithfulness, God’s plan is that two should always stay together.

  3. stacy g says:

    they have to pray about it turn it over to God and never Speak of it again in anger its not gonna be easy

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  5. missyky28 says:

    just give advice to them that god will forgive them he will never leave us nor forsake us. if you commit adultery seek the lord and repent for god died for our sins… that why there is alot of sin today because god took every strike on his back and every-strike he took represents our sins…

  6. Maggie says:

    Well all you can do is be there for him. I feel like if they both want to try and work it out, they should try. I know it is going to be very hard for your friend to maybe in his heart to forgive his wife, but he needs to try cause if she is a Christian and asks God do forgive her, he will, so who are we not to forgive her? But if he feels that maybe he can’t live with her no longer, according to the bible he has all rights to divorce her.